Thursday, February 6, 2020

Is She Staying For Tutoring Today?

Is She Staying For Tutoring Today?My friend and I were talking the other day about the 'I'm not her tutor' mentality of some of our female friends. She had overheard two women from the gym discussing their new boyfriends, one of whom looked like a very good prospect. The second woman told her that she was not her tutor. We started laughing about it, but when she went over to chat with the guy, he looked at her and said 'Oh you're not my tutor, you're here for tutoring today.'Now, I would be very willing to be there for a woman, but this seemed to be an example of 'Men are not to be tutored'. Or maybe, more than one? It was very strange that she was there for a little bit longer than the tutoring was supposed to take.Another example of how things get blown out of proportion. And yet, when a man goes out with a woman they have to be willing to do all the 'stuff' they would not be willing to do with the same woman. This 'stuff' usually comes in the form of hanging out with the girl. I a m not sure what it is, but I know I do not want to hang out with someone if I am dating them.The last time I was on a date with a woman I did not know and had planned to go to the movies we went out to dinner, and then to the movies. She came up to me afterward and said, 'Did you like the movie?' So, I explained that I did like it, but we did not talk about it for long because we had to go. So, I decided to give this example a try myself.Now, one other example would be, would be guys with attractive wives stay at home and cook? Of course, it would not work, but still it is interesting to look at. One of my closest friends is married to a beautiful woman, so maybe she would be better off with a boyfriend who was a chef rather than a secretary or assistant.Another example would be, would be guys with cute girls stay at home? Again, this would not work, but still it is interesting to look at. My best friend and I are both married and our husbands both have wives. But even though we hav e wives, we still see each other and go out and eat all the time.One more example would be, would be women with hot guys leave to go have dinner with the guy. To me, it is not a very attractive look to walk out the door with a guy you have just met. However, that is the way of the world, and sometimes it can be a 'shock to the system'.

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